what is life exactly?


A young couple moves into a new neighborhood. The next morning, while they are eating breakfast, the young wife sees her neighbor hang the wash outside.

“That laundry is not very clean,” she said to her husband. “The neighbor doesn’t know how to wash correctly. Perhaps she needs better laundry soap.”

Her husband looked on, but remained silent.

Every time her neighbor hung her wash to dry, the young woman would make the same comments.

About one month later, the young woman was surprised to see a nice clean wash on her neighbor’s line and said to her husband, “Look! She has learned how to wash correctly. I wonder who taught her this?”

The husband said, “I got up early this morning and cleaned our windows!”

Can you see how it might be a good idea to check first, to see if your windows are clean? What we see when watching others depends on the purity of the windows through which we look.

Before we give any criticism, it might be a good idea to check our state of mind and ask ourselves if we are ready to see the good rather than just look for something wrong in the people we encounter.

— Author Unknown — Submitted by Kartik Bodawala — India

Doesn’t that remind you of one phrase?

“Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?”
I’m sure in our everyday life, we tend to judge others whether consciously or not. And usually, we do it in an unfair manner. Just like the woman in the story who was looking through the dusty window. Who are we to judge others? If we ourselves are not worthy. On what basis can we judge them? This leads to another phrase “if you’ve not stood in my shoes for even a second, who are you to judge me?” Honestly, it’s impossible to not judge. Understandable. Forming a 1st impression is also considered judging already. So, how can you say that you don’t judge?


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